Magic Heart Tantra

Tantric Massage for Men

Having had three sessions of your wonderful tantric massage, I am now beginning to rationalise the experience.  I first came to you for traditional lomi lomi massage which in itself was extremely pleasurable but left me 'wanting more'.  I was delighted to hear you were branching out yourself into this field and with some trepidation I came to the first tantric session.  
From the outset I felt warm, pampered and even 'loved'.  As a complete shock to me, and I suspect to you, this turned into a multi-orgasmic tour de force, on my very first session!  The waves of pleasure and dormant energy being released both shocked and amazed me
.Having been celibate for three years since the untimely death of my wife, I was not even sure that I functioned any more; the experience was mind blowing.  I still wanted the traditional orgasm, simply feeling cheated without it, but when it came it was to be honest something of an anti climax.  Immediately after I ejaculated the tranquility and energy dissipated and I lost interest in any further contact or relaxation.
The second session was even better.  I was more relaxed and the waves of bliss came deeper and more often.  The traditional orgasm was again an ending rather than a flow, in every way.
On the third session I decided to forego the traditional orgasm, and bask in the shocking (to me anyway) delights of the full body orgasms which begin as early as twenty minutes into the session when you are working on my back, and which continued growing in strength and depth of feeling right through to the incredible genital massage toward the end of the session.  The traditionalist in me still took over, and I allowed myself to ejaculate.  Although better in terms of 'ruining the feeling' there was certainly an element of it still there.The full body orgasm is quite simply a logical progression of the massage, assisted by breathing and facilitated by you.  I can only describe it as one of many peaks on a long pleasurable journey.  The traditional orgasm, whilst incredibly satisfying 'in the moment' still signals the end of the journey.   Why am I rushing to end a journey which is so enjoyable in and of itself?I hope this explains the feelings; it is all still quite a shock for me!  Next weeks session will hopefully expand the depth of response to your incredible touch, and perhaps my journey can progress….Kindest regards and many, many thanks,

CM,  London. 
[With apologies to any ladies reading this, I currently only offer tantric massage to men.  I am happy to recommend some other wonderful therapists to any women looking for sessions from a woman.]

 In working as a massage therapist for many years I was often told that I had Magic Hands. Over time, and particularly since exploring the world of tantra, I have come to believe that the magic is not in my hands, but in my heart. The difference in the quality of my touch comes from that level - the emotional rather than the physical. But more than that, the magic is in your heart and my intention in working with you is to help you to connect with your own heart and have an experience of the magic it contains, physically, mentally and emotionally.

Tantric massage
aims to move beyond mere sexual pleasure into the realms of bliss. It
awakens the entire body - creating a sense of expansion and a connection to the life-force energy within us all. Throughout the massage you are honoured as a manifestation of the Divine and encouraged to access this fundamental part of your being. The state of deep peace and bliss that we can connect to is, I believe, our true nature and experiencing it directly during this time can help us to live more from this place within us.

With ancient roots in Indian spiritual practices, tantric massage works on the energetic anatomy of the body as much as the physical. It is designed to awaken an energy known as Kundalini which is said to live dormant at the base of the spine like a coiled snake. When released, this energy flows up pathways in and around the spine, activating energy centres known as chakras and can be transmuted into a spiritual form.

This energy can also be used by the body for healing of mental, emotional and physical ills.  Although this is not the main purpose of tantra, it is an enjoyable side effect. The healing comes from within you and is not in anyway created or given to you by the therapist who is merely a catalyst in the process.

Both men and women in our culture often have hang-ups and issues around our appearance and our sexuality. Whether that be a dislike of our body, a sense of shame around our desires or an unhealthy obsession with performance most of us have something that prevents us from fully enjoying our life and our sexuality. In its open accepting of
the entire body and our natural sexuality, Tantra can help to counter these problems and bring us into healthier relationship with the entirety of ourselves. If you have specific issues in this area please let me know beforehand and we can explore ways to help in a more profound way to assist you in clearing these.

The tantric massage is generally performed on a futon mattress on the floor but can also be done
on a massage table. Both you and I will be in an open, natural state of nakedness. Before the treatment I will suggest that you establish a pattern of breathing deeply into your belly - coming back to this breath if you find you have lost it will enhance the process. I will encourage you to maintain your awareness in each present moment - really feeling the touch you are experiencing. I will encourage you to move with the energy and to make sound to create a greater release of tension and build up of healing energy.

As with the naturist massage I encourage you not to touch me as this will bring you outside yourself. To take this time to be totally present to what you are feeling is an important part of the process. You may find that keeping your eyes closed allows you to connect more fully with the sensations in your body - or you may wish to make regular eye contact with me - to see and to be seen.

The session begins
with you lying face down while I perform an honouring ritual connecting us with ourselves, each other and the Divine.
Warm oils (scented or not as you prefer) are spread generously over your body and the whole of you is massaged, tenderly and with total attention.   If you wish to explore massage of the prostate this can also be included during this part of the massage.  The prostate gland is a very sensitive area of men that can create a very profound release of energy.  I can be worked partially externally at the perineum but deeper access is afforded internally via the anus.  This part of the treatment is optional and I will always allow you to opt not to experience it or to stop at any point if you wish to try it but then feel either physical or emotional discomfort around it.  Relaxing deeply will allow you to experience the full pleasure but if you are tense you are unlikely to enjoy the process.  I always wear gloves for this internal work.  If you wish to prepare it can be helpful (but not totally necessary) to have a clean out before you come for your session.  For more information see where you can also purchase the necessary equipment.).  Around half way through the session I will ask you to turn onto your back and the massage will continue with work to open your heart and to continue building and spreading the energy. No part of the body is ignored - including the genitals which are caressed and honoured.

As you reach higher levels of bliss you may find yourself on an orgasmic plateau where the experience of orgasm and ejaculation are separated. Here you can bask in waves of bliss for many hours without the deflation that follows ejaculation. You may feel waves of energy flowing around your body and a sense of expansion beyond your usual physical confines. This can happen spontaneously in any session (even your first) and can be encouraged by working with breath and visualisation. If trying to achieve this creates a sensation of frustration for you it is acceptable to have a conventional orgasm but I encourage you to try for the deeper experience of full-body orgasm as this is where the magic is! Read here for more information.

As this is a deep process it takes time to achieve this state. This is not a simple massage with a 'happy ending' - let alone a 'rub and a tug' . It takes time to build this energy and to relax into it and so sessions are a minimum of 2 hours, though longer sessions are also available and recommended. Sessions cost £110 per hour.

I am returning to be based full time in the UK
I'm not sure yet where I will be based but will visit London on a regular basis so if you would like to be informed of my visits join my mailing list here.

Phone: 07971 875392
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